Tuesday, April 15, 2014

Try to Make Your Life: A Jewish Girl Hiding in Nazi Berlin by Margot Friedlander

Margot, while reading.

After reading Night, I knew I’d read another book written by a holocaust survivor. I got lucky when I found that a book launch event for Try To make Your Life by Margot Friedlander was being held in DC. I received a review copy courtesy of the publisher and I made it about halfway through the book beforehand. Margot spent a significant amount of time reading from her memoir at the start of the event. When I got back home to finish reading the second half, I could no longer do so without hearing her voice. 

Through the first forty pages or so, she recounts what many would consider an ideal childhood. But that was before the Nazis came into power. She then details how Jews were systematically demoralized. Little by little, they were stripped of their properties, their possessions, their businesses, and even their professional accreditations.  

Margot’s mother tried, desperately, to get herself and her two children out of the country.  Family and friends, even those that had already immigrated, turned their backs. When they finally caught a break, on the day they were to emigrate, Margot arrived home to find the Gestapo at her door. Her mother and brother had been taken away and Margot’s mother left her with a message: Try to make your life.

Margot decides to go into hiding. Over the course of fifteen months, sixteen strangers help her. Someone gave her a silver cross pendant to wear so that people would think she was Christian. A doctor even gave her a nose job, for free, after she was afraid of being discovered because of her “Jewish looking nose.” Eventually she finds herself in an impossible situation. When asked for papers to prove her identity, she turns herself in. And then, she was taken to a concentration camp which she ultimately describes as a "middle ground, not life,not death." 

The book ends with Friedlander describing that she could only write the book after the death of her husband. Had her husband been alive she would not have done it. He was also a survivor and wanted nothing to do with Germany. Thinking back on her mother's and her brother's last moments and wondering if her father harbored any regrets about abandoning the family are two of the things she still wonders about today. It was writing the book finally led her home to Germany. She moved back in 2009.

I'll post the event recap soon. And you'll want to stay tuned for this one.

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Wednesday, April 9, 2014

Don't Play in the Sun by Marita Golden

After reading Migrations of the Heart, I started searching for all kinds of information on Marita Golden. When I found out that she would be participant in an ongoing lecture series at a local university, it was a no-brainer that I’d be there. She discussed Don't Play in the Sun which was assigned to students as the official reading for English 101 at the university. The lecture series is free and open to the public. 

From the book’s back cover:
“Don't play in the sun. You’re going to have to get a light-skinned husband for the sake of your children as it is.” In these words from her mother , novelist and memoirist Marita Golden learned as a girl that she was the wrong color. Her mother had absorbed “colorism” without thinking about it. Even today, as Golden shows in this provocative book, biases based on skin color persist-and so do their long-lasting repercussions.

First in line!

After providing a brief introduction to the book, Golden opened her lecture by posing a question to the audience. “How do we institutionalize healing?” We were able to think on that while Golden expounded on topics covered in the book.

After much discussion, one attendee claimed that this concept of colorism is old news and asked what was the purpose of the book. (Colorism is discrimination based on skin color (light, medium, dark) and not the same racism.) Golden responded, “The book was written for healing; but when you write to heal you, you heal others in the process.”  

Sure enough, when I started reading this book, I thought I was in for a bit of healing that I didn’t know I needed. She was telling my story. The story of being the little girl who draped her mother’s long silk scarves on her head and held them in place with bobby pins. For me, it was cheerleading pom poms. Then she pretends that she has long flowing hair.

The story of being the little girl that hated square dance class, because that’s where partners get assigned. And she knows the other kids, that do not look like her, do not want to hold her hand. For me, it was cheerleading camp. So she ends up partnered with an adult, in a class full of children.

After the lecture.

As the book goes on, it becomes less relatable for me and starts to feel like a story that is Golden's own. She shares countless experiences when she was impacted by colorism. At times it feels like projecting, but in places, it is difficult to deny. She discusses how influential television has been in contributing to the problem. How a light-skinned friend reluctantly disclosed that she was experiencing issues relating to colorism. She even tackles the topic from a global view by discussing the experiences, that she viewed first hand, of Black people battling colorism in other countries.

Just before the lecture ended, we attempted to answer the question posed to open the session. There was agreement that it starts in the home.Golden challenged everyone in attendance to start telling dark skinned girls that they are beautiful. They don’t hear it as much as light skinned, curly hair girls do.

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Tuesday, March 25, 2014

Every Day Is for the Thief by Teju Cole

Every Day Is for the Thief is Teju Cole’s second book. He wrote it in 2006, after writing Open City the same year. The former was published in Nigeria in 2007, long before the March 25, 2014 release here in the U.S.  I received an Advance Reader Copy of the book via NetGalley and was able to read the book before the U.S. release.

I attended Cole’s author event on the day of the book release. He described the novel as a disenchanted love story (with Lagos). And I agree. No need to try and top his description of his own work.

I love that this book is written in first person. The main character travels from New York to Lagos, his home, after having been away for over 10 years. I felt like I was there. It was as if the narrator was carrying a video camera. I had to remind myself that I was reading fiction.

Nothing but love for Michael Eric Dyson. 

The narrator, a well rounded individual, speaks to so many aspects of Lagos upon his return. Even though much is the same, his new perspective makes things look different. He thoughtfully details the events that are unfolding before him as he makes his way around the city. Violence, corruption, politics, infrastructure, and religion are only a few of the topics that are captured. 

This was an engaging read. There were places I laughed, places I shook my head with disapproval, and places I paused in shocked. As Cole was reading from the novel, there was laughter and nods from the audience as well. 

Surely you knew Professor Dyson would have something to add!

As much as I loved this book, it did not make me want to go to Lagos. When I asked Cole what he would say to balance out this characters portrayal of the city, this was part of his response: I wouldn’t say anything to balance out the narrator’s portrayal.The problem isn’t with telling negative stories. The problem is with telling stories that are not true. Just like you said you would never want to go, someone has the opposite response. The book makes them want to experience Lagos.

As I listened to Cole’s responses to the questions that followed mine, the style of his writing all of a sudden made perfect sense; it goes with him. I was not ready for this book to end. I dove right into “Open City” after completing it in an attempt to prolong the experience. 

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Sunday, March 23, 2014

Author Event and Film Screening: Half of a Yellow Sun

AFI Silver Theater and Cultural Center hosted the 10th Annual New African Films Festival on March 13th - 20th. They showed 3 screenings of Half of a Yellow Sun and this was not like any screening I’ve been to. The first screening was accompanied by a reception, courtesy of Bukom Cafe, my favorite restaurant in DC. The two screenings that followed featured a Q&A and book signing with Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie. After the rave reviews following Half of a Yellow Sun’s 2013 Toronto Film Festival premiere, these screenings were a big deal. As confirmation, all three screenings sold out! 

From the book’s back cover:
With effortless grace, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie illuminates a seminal moment in African history: Biafra’s struggle to establish an independent republic in southeastern Nigeria during the late 1960’s. We experience this tumultuous decade alongside five unforgettable characters: Ugwu, a thirteen-year-old houseboy who works for Odenigbo, a university professor full of revolutionary zeal; Olanna, the professor’s beautiful young mistress; and Richard, a shy young Englishman infatuated with Olanna’s willful twin sister Kainene. Half of a Yellow Sun is a tremendously evocative novel of promise, hope, and the disappointment of war. 

The movie had me all in my feelings. The book, for me, did not elicit so much emotion. I give credit to the movie for capturing the essence of the novel in such a powerful way; it worked. The movie made the book feel less like a novel. This was a good thing since the Nigeria-Biafra war really happened.

The characters in the book were easy to envision as those individuals on the screen, for the most part. There was one individual that just wasn’t working for me. And I found him to be a distraction throughout the movie. I’m not referring to Chiwetel Ejiofor. Everything about him was right!

As can be expected when trying to turn a 541 page book into a movie, some things may be glossed over. But the movie contained gaping omissions. Even so, the impact was minimal aside from the compelling series of events that would have provided insight on one of the characters. 

The end of the movie felt incomplete to me. Although the book’s ending was essentially the same, in the movie, the ending felt much more abrupt. Fortunately, we were in for more! After the screening, Adichie took questions from the audience. The following responses are as close to what was stated as possible. But because I did not record the discussion, there is some paraphrasing: 

On being involved in the film making -
I wasn't involved at all really. I chose not to be. I look at it as cutting up your baby. You have to hope that the people involved will cut up the baby in the best way possible.   

On coming up with the story -
Most writing wasn't from the research I did, but from stories that people told me. Almost everything in the book is something that happened to someone. 

On making sure that people grasp story in its entirety (outside of it being a movie and a book)-  Tell the story the best way you can and hope that the viewers and readers are humane and intelligent. 

On taking books to publishers -
I had an editor tell me that Half of a Yellow Sun isn't sexy. Darfur is sexy. If someone doesn't want to publish the story, I’ll find someone who wants to publish it. 

On considering how people will receive your work -  
I don't think about audience when I write because….when I lecture, I tell writers don't think about audience. If you do, you’re going to censor yourself. If I thought about my father, I could not write a sex scene.

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Monday, March 17, 2014

February 2014 Books Galore!

While reading The Beautiful Struggle by Ta-Nehisi Coates, I came across the name Pauline Hopkins. I jotted it down to do further research and I didn’t have to search long before deciding I would read at least one of her books. I ended up purchasing The Magazine Novels of Pauline Hopkins which contains three of her novels: Hagar's Daughter: A Story of Southern Caste Prejudice, Winona: A Tale of Negro Life in the South and Southwest and Of One Blood: Or, the Hidden Self: The Givens Collection.

Barnes & Noble Overview: The Schomburg Library of Nineteenth- Century Black Women Writers series, under the general editorship of Henry Louis Gates, Jr., has rescued the voice of an entire segment of the African-American literary tradition by offering volumes of compelling and rare works of fiction, poetry, autobiography, biography, essays, and journalism, written by nineteenth-century black women.

I purchased A Raisin in the Sun to read prior to attending the Broadway show and decided to order a few more books from my high priority list at the same time:  Discourse on Colonialism by Aimé Césaire, The Willie Lynch Letter and the Making of a Slave by Kofi Ghanaba, and Black Mamba Boy: A Novel by Nadifa Mohamed.

I received 3 books from publishers which is always fun. ‘Til the Well Runs Dry,  a debut novel by Lauren Francis-Sharma, is an Advance Reader Copy which will be released on April 22, 2014. Every Day is for the Thief by Teju Cole is also an Advance Reader Copy which will be released on March 25, 2015. I will attend his author event in DC on the same day of the book release. The Rat-boys of Karalabad was released in June 2013. I found something about this book synopsis very compelling. As far as I know, this is Zulfiqar Rashid’s first book.

Guess who finally has an eReader! I haven’t been compelled to read anything on it but that hasn’t stopped me from loading it up with books. It didn't take me long to realize that Amazon’s “Buy Now with 1-Click” option was not a good idea for me.

Bitch is the New Black by Helena Andrews was added back to my to-read list after attending an event in DC two weeks ago. I discovered The Man by Irving Wallace on Goodreads. It’s a novel about the first black president but it was written in 1964. The Ugly Daughter was also a Goodreads find which I was able to download for free.

Monday, March 10, 2014

One Maryland One Book 2014

Last year I discovered my state’s reading and discussion program in which the state focuses on one book annually. The 2013 selection was King Peggy: An American Secretary, Her Royal Destiny, and the Inspiring Story of How She Changed an African Village. I got lucky and received a free copy of the book at one of countless events, organized to promote the book and the program throughout the state.

This year’s theme is ‘the American Dream.” After taking nominations submitted by the general public, the selection committee narrowed down the list to 10.

And last month, they announced the winner! The Distance Between Us: A Memoir by Reyna Grande

Several of these books are already on my to-read list and I read The Other Wes Moore last month. Since I’m fond of this theme, I’m going to add the remaining books to my list as well. Detroit: An American Autopsy has particularly caught my attention.

I’m starting to think my to-read list needs to be divided into two categories: this lifetime and next lifetime.

What do you think about the list? Will you read any of these?

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Sunday, March 9, 2014

A Raisin in the Sun is Back on Broadway!

And guess who was there for the opening performance!

Written by Lorraine Hansberry, A Raisin in the Sun  was the first play written by a black woman to be performed on Broadway. It was initially presented at the Ethel Barrymore Theatre in New York City on March 11, 1959. The cast included Ruby Dee, Sidney Poitier, and Lou Gossett.
Saturday night marked the 55th anniversary, almost to the day, of one of the play’s numerous returns to Broadway. This performance was also at the Ethel Barrymore Theatre. Three of the ten person all star cast included Denzel Washington, Latanya Richardson-Jackson, and Anika Noni Rose.

Prior to the show I read the book, which is the actual play, in one day. I didn't expect it to overtly touch on so many topics: classism, sexism, racism, and family dynamics including sibling, spousal, and parental interaction. But I guess I would not have been surprised had I read the back cover which gave the following summary:
In her portrait of an embattled Chicago family, Hansberry anticipated issues that range from generational clashes to the civil rights and women’s movements. She also posed the essential questions - about  identity, justice, and moral responsibility - at the heart of these great struggles. The result is an American Classic. 


I went to the play to see Denzel, it was on my bucketlist actually - See Denzel on Broadway. And see Denzel I did. But Latanya Richardson-Jackson commanded my attention. The character she played, Lena, was one that demanded a strong and subtle presence. She’s respected because she earned it. And if you forget it, she’s not afraid to lay hands on you! But everything she does is motivated by love. Many of us know a Lena. She's our mother, our grandmother. And clearly Jackson knows her too. She didn't just play the part, she was the part!
The play was moving. I laughed, but I also shed a tear.  Even though I knew exactly what was going to happen! It speaks to the quality of the performances. A Raisin in the Sun is a winner. It is, after all, a classic. If you can make it to the show, this is a cast that will be worth the ticket price.
I will also read To Be Young, Gifted, and Black which is Hansberry’s autobiography.
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Thursday, March 6, 2014

Author Event with Okey Ndibe

Last week, Okey Ndibe was in town to discuss his new novel, Foreign Gods, Inc. This post will be short because Politics and Prose shared a link to some of the best parts of the discussion!
He's not short. I'm 5'10" and wearing 4 inch heels!

The event attendees raved about the book. After much nudging from the audience, we got what may or may not be confirmation of a Foreign Gods, Inc sequel from Ndibe. But the ending of this book certainly begs for it!

Getting my book signed.

I started and finished reading the book a few days after attending the event. I most enjoyed the witty writing and facetious remarks of the characters. The writing style has me looking forward to reading Arrows of Rain which was published in 2000.

“Well, anything born of a snake will never fail to resemble a rope.” Foreign Gods, Inc


I haven’t decided if I will write a review. But for an immediate summary of the book, you can follow the affiliate links to Amazon.

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Sunday, March 2, 2014

Redefining Realness by Janet Mock

Once I found out about this book, I started counting down the days until its release. It was published on February 4th and I finished reading it just over one week later.

Janet Mock tells a story unlike one that I’ve ever read. She is a trans woman of color, who “came out” publicly in a Marie Claire article in 2011. The article had an unexpected spin, repeatedly referring to her as a boy when in fact, she had been a girl in a boy’s body. It would be 3 years before she could share her journey in her own words.

I did not want to put this book down. I read it because I thought I would enjoy it. I had no idea that I would relate to it. Mock starts her story from the beginning, growing up as a black child in the 80’s. And in that regard, we are the same. But this story is familiar in another way as well. It makes you remember those times when you may have been hiding some part of yourself, hoping that, as Mock would say, no one sees you.

However, I cannot minimize her story. Her journey is unfamiliar to most. Mock knew from a very early age that even though she was born male, a boy, she was not. She tries to conform to societies gender roles, unsuccessfully, for several years as a boy. Eventually, she begins to embrace her true self. But what she had to deal with alongside this process are not experiences that any child should have.

Mock is molested for years by her father’s girlfriend’s son, abandoned by her mother for several years, a witness to drug abuse by both parents, and a witness to violence towards her mother. And before it’s all said and done, Mock spends a short time as sex worker to earn the funds for her gender reassignment surgery.

Tenacity and resilience may be an understatement when referring to this well read author who has been influenced by countless writers. She drew strength from the writings of Zora Neale Hurston, Ralph Ellison, James Baldwin, Toni Morrison,  Maya Angelou, Audre Lorde, and bell hooks to name a few from the impressive list.

Because I loved the book, also attended Mock’s Google Chat and book tour. In my summary post, you will find two statements from Mock herself that will sum up this book better than I did with this entire review.

“People assume that I was in the closet because I didn't disclose that I was assigned male at birth…….Frankly, I’m not responsible for other people’s perceptions and what they consider real or fake.” Redefining Realness

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